Apology For The Female Pleasure

We will explore, during this article, some of through "unconscious sexual collective" and will see how female sexuality can become dull, even unpleasant, or on the contrary abnormally unslung, when a certain number of unconscious factors arise in the psychic representations of the woman and the man.

It is not question of making here lawsuit of one or other of the sexes, because any generalization in this field would be a coarse error, but rather to give in prospect in a clear and sometimes explicit way the responsibilities for each one in the representation and the practice of sexuality. The goal first of this article is, in this direction, to give elements so that the people annoyed with sexuality find the hope of a healthy access of the sexual thing.

The archetypal man seen by feminism

We will begin this talk with a small analysis of the unconscious current female collective, that of the women of generation 65-80 . This unconscious collective starts with an archetypal vision of the man which has the good taste to be the intersection between the feminist representation of the man like "assoiffée animal of sex" and the representation of the generation of the parents of the "babies boomers" of the man "who goes to the whores and the bar as soon as it has three pennies".

The archetypal man is seen by the feminist eye like the "male". Caricatured to the extreme, the man is represented like a "machine with kissing", to take again the expression, quite disturbing, because of eating - symbolically "to fill" - and of the "stomach" - sex - the men are represented as worried mainly by eating and making love. Moreover, the common manner for the man to make love, it, is also represented in a caricatural way in the feminist vision like the act aiming at "emptying" the testicles, not to employ other coarser formulas.

The man must make love "to relieve himself", which explains the pressure that the men continuously exert on the women for obtaining their sexual favors. The woman is obliged, in this mode of representations, to transform itself into a sex object allowing the man to appease her lowest impulses, this last becoming absent since the "belly" or the "stomach" is not concerned any more (education of the children, tasks domestic, etc). The man is seen like a "animal".

This archetypal representation has advantages (and it is for these advantages that it was hawked) but it has also many disadvantages whose majority appear invisible to the members of the feminist currents themselves.

Advantages of the representation of the archetypal man

The use of the nuance passes the lapse of memory of all the formulas of the type: "all X are like that. As regards sexuality, it is obligatory to moderate if one does not want to say many stupid things.

The archetypal representation of the "stupid man" has for objector to protect a certain number of girls from the unverifiable desires of the men. This representation has, indeed, the "advantage" of describing rather well a certain category of men. For the latter indeed, sexuality is the principal heart of the concerns and the simple fact "of leaving" with a woman necessarily implies that the latter accepts, afterwards explicit summations or implicit psychological pressures, to accept many and frequent sexual "attacks" .

In this caricatural representation, it is the immense selfishness of the man who is described like monstrous, selfishness which perverts the sexual intercourse with the woman to make of it only one research of the satisfaction of the male pleasure, without consideration for the pleasure of the woman, but also without consideration for its pain, which is immensely more serious.

Problems involved in the archetypal representation of the man

We will expose two great types of problems which the women can have if they sufficiently interiorized the archetypal representation of the man like"assoiffe of sex".

The first great type of problem is the difficulty, for the majority of them, to recognize a different man. Because to interiorize the male caricature amounts projecting on all the men the phantom of sexual bestiality. It is thus an act which has as a nature to deform reality insofar as all the men are suspects to be "animals"

It results from it a chronic suspicion on behalf of certain women who are not able "to believe" only the man that they have opposite it does not wish only to use them like a sex object. This vision of the relations man woman can quickly pose a problem of stability of the relation, fact even of the woman and her erroneous vision of the man. Concretely, the latter will be on its guards, and will wait the moment when "the man reveals himself finally", generally to flee it. Of course, the following man, after the "beautiful phase" of the "beginning", will wake up, in it, the same type of behaviors of mistrust and often the same exit.

This relation with the man can easily turn to certain paranoiac waiting on behalf of the woman finally "to be deceived" and degraded, and a satisfaction with the being if by chance does it arrives (masochism). Generally, a sexual traumatism is responsible for this tendency to the deformation of reality (rape, incest, marital sexual violence's passed, etc).

The archetypal representation of the man as a assoiffee animal of sex is thus a convenient means for these women traumatized to project the evil which was made to them by projecting their fear on all the men. This behavior is a traditional feature of the "defense" of the neurosis which prefers to install mechanisms of escape instead of starting psychoanalytical work necessary to reabsorb the traumatism .

The second consequence of this archetypal sight of the bestial man is, it, much more pernicious, insofar as it is very widespread and strongly serves the women in the fact of assuming or of wanting to assume their pleasure.
Indeed, for much of women, the man is always in authority to become a assoiffée animal of sex (we will see some elements further from male libido to clarify this established fact). In a sense, these women took only the bad side of the feminist claim, in addition very legitimate in much of dimensions.

Behind this acquired behavior, one indicates notes of fatalism, of discouragement a priori, at the same time as for a presupposed nature of the man, and as for a devalorization of oneself seen like inevitable, and hidden by the sentences of "I cannot say to him not", "I cannot resist to him", or "I do not dare", "I will make him sorrow", etc the fear is, latent always there, a fear which can not be not in adequacy with reality.

This play distorts, of course, completely gives it between the two partners, going even, sometimes, until causing the appearance of abusive behaviors at the men themselves! While conditioning itself to give these prerogatives to the men, the women scorn themselves in the name of an archetypal representation of the sexuality in which the man is the caricatural monster. This position serves at the most point the woman who while positioning as a sex object, invites the man with use her body as a sex object. We are in full vicious circle.

One then finds women of which the representation of the man seems to date from last century and is made a priori obligatory mixture of respect, fear and sexual tender. If it is difficult for these women to leave their neurosis inherited to perceive a different reality, it is very complex for them to be authorized to have desire, and consequently, pleasure.

The femme fatale, negative prototype of the bestial man

A certain number of women believe to solve the vicious circle of a seemingly protective female conditioning but actually subjected, by making sexual higher bid, i.e. while wanting to play with the men on their own ground, that is to say the ground of the instrumentalisation of the other.

Let us note that this approach of sexuality is as neurotic as that of the man "animals of sex" .The femme fatale accepts the instrumentalisation of her own body under certain conditions, in particular when it subjects the men. Because, which it accepts, at the bottom, it is to be the first and the only one with instrumentaliser its own body for its own desires.

It is seen here that, far from being a "released woman" sexually speaking, it is a woman who interiorized so deeply the state of woman object who it is the first to be degraded with respect to itself. What one can wish of better with his wives is to fall in love with a man who refuses these plays of domination, even if it means to place the woman in front of her own contradictions.Most of the time intelligent, even cerebral, it can choose partners who are not too "dangerous", or whose capacity of resistance does not exceed its own capacities of domination. It generally endorses a very male libido in its regularity and replaces

Master in the relation man woman. One could wonder besides which type of orgasms the femme fatale can know, the female pleasure being more one pleasure obtained in a state of confidence, even of abandonment. In a state of domination, intellect is still too sharp to allow the abandonment the real power of the orgasm and a general way, with the rise of the pleasure. Thus, one can suspecter at the femme fatale of problems of the orgasmic type.T.


The schizophrenic man

We will be allocated to the men and will try to leave the extreme prototypes whom we have just seen, at the same time at the man and the woman. Because, it should be admitted, the male tendency (as female) to limit the relation man woman to a purely sexual relation (in the broad sense of the term) is, altogether, rather rare. We will note moreover than it does not correspond, in spite of what one could believe, with the prototype of the Gift Juan, on which we will return.

One finds rather, at most of the men, a quasi schizophrenic approach of sexuality. The man seems to oscillate between two states: "satisfied" and "in request". If the "satisfied" man is calm and has his own stable personality, the man "in lack of sex" seems to cover one second personality only focused on the continuation of his sexual desire.

The man "in lack" then seems "inhabited", "had" and the majority of the civilized behaviors that one usually notes at his place, seem to be reduced. Thus, the majority of the women know these strange behaviors of the man which want to say "make love" without the statement or with periphrases worthy of largest of imaginations.The majority of the women are often badly at ease in front of this male pressure, and it is enough that the woman interiorized this caricatural notion of the man so that it yields in advance of the man, believing herself forced, or "to give pleasure", or "because it is like that", or "because if not, he will not like me any more", etc the female pleasure being more complex than the male pleasure, the woman, in this aculeate situation, seldom takes pleasure, or at least takes a "basic" pleasure most of the time.

Male libido

The evolution of the libido of the man is rather simple in his general structure. According to the men, one could be interested in the concept of time limits, maximum time between two "ejaculations" in a perfect world, that is to say without strong external stimulation except his partner.

This time, except perfect world, depends on many factors, in particular the "external" excitations of consumption type of pornography. It during, generally (and under identical conditions), it would seem that each man has a rather regular time, even if one could note seasonal variations (spring, summer).

The male libido could be seen as a pressure which goes up in a pressure cooker. As soon as the pressure becomes sufficiently strong, the stopper of the casserole starts to turn and the man is in a state in which the sexual need becomes very present, often unconsciously besides. The majority of the men look at more the women in this state and go until detailing, often rather coarse manner, their anatomy more than they would usually do it.

When the man ejaculated after having made love (the capacity of the masturbation on sexual satisfaction appears less strong), the pressure cooker was opened, Re-filled of water and setting on fire. The pressure will take usual time to go up.

The incompatibility of the libidos

At the woman on the other hand, the cycle of the libido is copied on the menstrual cycle with a point of the libido around the periods of ovulations for the majority of the women. At the majority of them, the period of the rules is one period if not of "not libido" at least of strong reduction in the libido.One will be able to note that the two cycles of libidos of the man and the woman are not compatible a priori. That explains why the inattentive man with his partner will tend to project on his partner the regularity of his own sexual desires, being able to cause at it, a certain irritation. Indeed, the majority of the women being rather discrete as for their menstrual cycle, the rises and falls structural of the female libido can be interpreted wrongfully like a female inconsistency by the inattentive man.

Certain behaviors are to be in particular avoided that where, under the pressure of the libidinous man, the woman yields. The consequence of this behavior is to authorize the man, implicitly, to order in a unilateral way the sex act of the couple, authorization which becomes quickly, with time, a "right asset" of the man on the woman. Often unable to call into question this "right asset" built during the first months of the relation, the woman sees herself forced to undergo. If she loves the man, she will tend to simulate, if she discovers that she does not like it, she will leave it if she has sufficient energy or will remain in sexual misery in the contrary case.

These obligations turning quickly to the ritual, the libido of the woman can decrease until knowing a certain progressive insensitivity which can sometimes turn to the dislike. The sex act "obligatory" will become one day the great subject of rancor within the couple At will incorporate the dissatisfactions of like other.Of course, if the woman refuses all the time under the pressure of the libidinous man, it is the man who, one day, plugged by his sexual instincts, will tend to be will be attracted by other women. The literature is filled up of this kind of stories on which I will not be delayed.

All occurs like if the couple, during the prelude to the sexual intercourse were distributed the roles: the man having the role to ask and the woman having often the role to say "yes" or "not".

To find an area of agreement

Of course, it is necessary to find an area of agreement in the couple so that the sexual intercourse finds their place in largest and the most total agreement. It should be still said still and, the sexual intercourse especially within a framework of love between the two partners, should be a shared pleasure. If it is not the case and that some element comes to disturb this common pleasure, it is necessary to stop the act in order to draw with light what in order to will not make a shared pleasure of it.

That starts with the communication before the act, and if one needs it during the sex act itself. Before the act, logic would like that the libido of the woman controls the sexual intercourse, because the libido of the man being regular, if the man controls the sexual intercourse, it is likely to fall into a low phase from the female libido. However, the female pleasure being what it is, any pressure upstream of the sex act can show Nona pleasure at the woman - or at least a pleasure nonorgasmic.

The man must thus put the question of what it seeks: does it seek its own pleasure, its clean "right" by stimulating the unconscious female collective on the question of the "marital duty" or seeks it the shared pleasure? In the second case, it must let the woman be expressed.

Net the act in full medium. The game is worth the candle if there is a problem, in particular a faintness relating to the role, or any other "technical" point purely. It is not good a posteriori of debriefed to announce its pains sexual but them while they arrive, so that the man develops this sensitivity to the female pleasure.

This communication between the partners must be established in a great transparency and not in a substitute of communication. It is thus necessary to avoid simulations of listening resulting from an egoistic pleasure. Of course, the result of listening is the action even the modification of the behaviors. If the man can lose his "traditional sexual prerogatives there", it can gain a partner there.The communication in the sexual couple is very important because the sexual ground has that of private individual that bad experiments can be quickly traumatisantes. Obviously, young people are the victims, most serious are the traumatisms.

Moreover sexual traumatisms "often lock" other former traumatisms and worsen the infantile neuroses.Because, the majority of the people having had sexual intercourse traumatisantes remain the women (the sexual traumatism is indeed rarer among boys heterosexuals . The man penetrates, and the woman is penetrated, which explains why the distribution of the traumatisms. It is more traumatisant to be made penetrate to penetrate, and the men consuming of the pornography should remember some a little more often.

Elements on the female pleasure

The author not being a woman, we excuse ourselves from the start to have only one idea "external" of the female pleasure and not a lived experiment of the interior of this pleasure. Thus, we will make our not to better say too many silly things nor to try to say more than we do not think dementionner without risk good.

Contrary to the male pleasure, the female pleasure is a complex alchemy. The same woman, according to her interior state, her mood, her state of tiredness, stress, the moment of her cycle, etc, can react in a different way to the same stimuli. This observation is important for the men who consider that to make love is a shared pleasure. Indeed, even if the woman likes usually certain things or positions, it may be that the way of which she likes them is not the same one today as yesterday. It thus required there at the man to adapt to his partner who, if she can theoretically have several orgasms in the same sexual intercourse, would often like to have of them already one each time, which is far from being the case.

If a woman is too intellectual, it will generally need a longer preparation to make it leave an inevitable thought which comes "to look at and analyze" when the pleasure goes up and which tends to kill it. The cerebral woman does not like to lose control and it is often because of its fear of the man. The intellectual women and "controlling" thus have more often than the other women of the problems to reach the orgasm - if they ever reached it.

How to Pleasure a Woman - Hit Home Runs in Bed and Be an Absolute Stunner

Every man wants to know how to pleasure a woman in bed and satisfy her completely. It's very hard to pleasure a woman unless you know what she needs and wants in bed. Now such experience only comes with time spent with that specific woman. In this case it's always good to let the woman take over and have some control. Read what she is trying to do and try to give her the best of what she needs. Read on to discover some of the best kept secrets on how to pleasure a girl.

Talk dirty- Talking dirty is one of the best ways to pleasure a girl and get her ready for the main act. Women mostly tend to love naughty kinky talks but when it's within limits.

Discuss everything- Sometimes it tends to get into the awkward mode where you get an awkward feeling around someone. Women go through the same and it's extremely important to catch when they are actually going through this. Discuss what she prefers and how she likes it. Try to break all communication barriers and be open about this topic with her. There is absolutely nothing with talking about it with her. You want it and she wants it at the same time.

Transfer control- Women never feel pleasured unless they are given control occasionally. Make it a point to take control by turns and let her have her way once in a while. According to some males giving woman the control is like letting her take over. This has nothing to do with who controls whom rather all about pleasure. If you can't take turns you would never achieve optimum pleasure in bed.

Don't sleep- Most men tend to fall asleep instantly after sex. Women go through an emotional change the moment they orgasm. They feel the need to be more emotionally connected to you after sex. The best thing to do is to always pick a topic and talk about it. Don't let it be silent and don't go to sleep instantly.

How good are you in bed? - Do you have what it takes to satisfy women in bed? Do you know what every woman wants bed? Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite.

9 out of 10 Brit women take time out to pleasure themselves!

Nine out of ten women are taking time out to pleasure themselves, reveals a new UK research.

The Gossard Big M Survey quizzed more than 1,000 UK women aged 18-30 with an extensive questionnaire to find out all about their sexual attitudes, habits, fantasies and practices – and found that more ladies than ever are regularly taking time out for some solo action.

The survey, which clearly shows how women’s attitudes and practices have changed over the decades, found that two-thirds of Brit women admit to pleasuring themselves three times a week, with women in London finding the time for four sessions every seven days.

In the survey, 92 percent of women admitted to touching themselves this year, compares with only 74 per cent in 1979 and 62 per cent in 1953.

“It’s no wonder more and more women are self-pleasuring when you look at how liberated we’ve become in other areas of our lives and the shot of mood boosting hormones orgasm gives us,” the Sun quoted leading woman’s coach, Jessica Chiver, as saying.

“One of the best things about pleasing ourselves is that it gives us more confidence when we’re intimate with our partners - we communicate better and feel more satisfied which is good for everyone,” she added. (ANI)

Simple Things That Give Women Pleasure

Who would you go to for sex advice? Dr. Ruth, the yoda-like love-master who makes the thought of having sex about as fun as putting a puzzle together; or the real sex experts -those Player s who you rarely hear from because they're too busy making love to fashion models, co-workers, girls next door, and their girlfriend's best friend.

These are the All-Star Pros that most men should be asking for sex advice. Let me put it this way: For a football coach, would you rather get the volunteer high school gym teacher, or John Elway? Do you get my point? The best way to become a great lover is to mimic what great lovers do.
talk to god
We have to admit that the way a man looks has a lot to do with his chances of sleeping with a lot of women. But what really counts is how good he can use his tools to give her the ultimate orgasm. If you can make her talk to God ( "Oh God! Oh God!" ), then chances are that she'll be begging you for more sex than you can handle.

Most Players will admit that they were not born as female magnets, but learned the ropes through observation and practice. Once a Player is reputed for being a good lover, women fall at his feet trying to get a taste of sensual pleasures.
the key is observation
Much like myself, most good lovers share four common traits. The first thing they do is size up a woman's body through massage; the second thing involves asking the woman what pleases her most; the third consists of observing what stimuli she responds to through adult movies; and the final thing that good lovers do is observe a woman's scale of arousal.

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Begin with a massage
Each woman reacts differently to various stimuli. The sensations that a woman can experience from a man's touch will always vary. By massaging her whole body and observing her reactions, her sensitive areas will be unveiled, allowing for more pleasurable relations.

What women usually like while being massaged, are soft licks and touches in sensitive areas like the back of her neck and behind the ears, where the skin is very soft. The next time you give a woman a massage, add some variety and instead of simply rubbing her. Lightly run the tip of your fingers and tongue over the insides of her elbows, back of her knees, over her wrists, her nipples and between her thighs.

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Ask her what she likes
There are millions of sex experts in the world, but the best ones usually don't have a Ph.D. They're called "Women", and they're a lot more interesting to talk to than your average sexologist. Women experiment with their own bodies; they are more in tune with what satisfies and gratifies them . So the next time you're not sure if she's enjoying the experience, ask her what she likes instead.

# Watch adult movies
I'm not talking about adult movies that degrade women and are made for men, but rather movies made by lesbians for lesbians. During the act of lovemaking, women constantly look at each other's expressions to measure their level of enjoyment.

Do the same by paying attention to what a woman fancies. When you touch her in a way that she likes, keep doing it. Most men make the mistake of doing it too hard or too fast. Turn it up a notch only if she pushes her body against you, or if she moans the words "faster" or "harder" .

# Observe her arousal scale
Good sex occurs when partners on the same sexual wavelength. Not only is every woman different, but even the same woman is different from day to day. One day she may want it fast and hard, while the next day may require a more slow and soft approach. Therefore, you have to know what wave she is riding to make the experience pleasurable.

Take your cue from the way a woman flirts with you. If she's acting sensual, and caresses you gently, then you have to start slow and maintain a soft and romantic mood. However, if she comes on strong, then she probably wants crazy cat-like sex.

Great lovers don't memorize complicated techniques, they master the simple things that give women pleasure . How do they know what makes their woman go crazy and fantasize about them? Good lovers open their eyes and observe, observe, observe; and when they're unsure, they simply ask.

Awakening Your Inner Lover – “Experiencing Pleasure”

All experience is first created in the imagination as a reflection of our “mood” or state of mind. We create an inner experience that becomes the organizing factor of our outer experience. We create it on the inside, then project out onto our environment and create a corresponding expression through how we “emotionally interpret” things to give them meaning. The meaning forms the basis for the “type” experience we create as a result. This is the fundamental basis of “self-expression”. Our true creative ability lies in our capacity and skill for creating desired experiences. We do this primarily by first recognizing what “feeling” we are longing for, then placing our attention on that feeling, holding it in our mind’s eye, noticing what the sensation is in our body, and allowing a kind of story to emerge out of it as a natural expression that is allowed and uncensored. The story demonstrates what type of experience will give us that feeling. Feelings have whole stories inherent in them as part of their archetypal nature.

Our ability to not only imagine vividly, but experience fully comes by way of awakening our senses and using them to create intoxicating sensual experiences of a deeply erotic nature. We have to marry eros to logos, use the emotional quality to fill and activate the mental impression. Bring back our sensuality as a means of animating mental images with provocative qualities of being that excite and enliven us. Qualities, embodied and expressed sensuously enhance our ability to cultivate deeply gratifying states of erotic beauty while exercising our creative powers to first create our internal state, then express ourselves, while having the experience our own creation.

Because we live in a society that is largely left-brained, overly intellectual and addicted to technology, we often lack the emotional skills and awareness necessary to directly connect to and become apart of our environment. Our ability to feel fully present in our bodies while merging with our immediate experience has become dulled and unpracticed. This has resulted in the resigned, lack-luster society that endlessly indulges in mundane mediocrity and has settled into a lifeless existence that we call normal. We must retrain our minds to embrace our sensual nature and the pleasure that comes from learning how to increase our emotional energy that arouses our mind igniting our imagination with a sense of passion. When we become passionate thinkers, the life we create is intoxicating and erotic, vivid and seductive, relentlessly calling us on. No place is this ability more enriching than when we engage fully in the art of love-making.

So we begin by intentionally creating the experiences designed to awaken our senses and enliven our bodies with erotic sensations that arouse our soul to higher states of consciousness. Merging with the Beloved, becoming one with God, is symbolized by the experience of blending into another and loosing ourselves in euphoric states of eternal bliss. The experience of intense love that consumes the mind, body and emotions through a heightened and prolonged orgasm serves as a metaphor for the intense pleasure of merging back into and becoming one with our Creator. As above, so below, in our sexual experiences, like all of life, we are at once the creators, the creation itself, while having the experience of our creation. No place is this more evident than embracing the love of creating while seeking atonement of mind, body and spirit into the same act.

In order to do this we must retrain our mind and body to work in-sync and increase our ability to receive pleasure, give it and become one-with it. Like learning the skills necessary for becoming the creator of any art-form, we must develop the ability for heightened sensory experience, and the ability to cultivate and maintain deep forms of pleasure for prolonged periods of time.

Exercise for enhanced sensory pleasure of the body/mind:

• Decide on what type of experience you wish to create – either as an expression of your current mood, or by embodying the qualities necessary to “create” your mood.

• Create the proper ambiance for the “type” of experience desired so that it will unfold naturally. The environment that will elicit the same mood in your lover. This can be low lighting, candles, burning incense or potpourri, soft music, sexy attire or partial nudity, etc. (Think in terms of invoking as many senses as possible – visual, sound, smells, touch, taste, etc.)

• Create the proper setting or stage – arrange the bed, use soft blankets, or silky sheets, arrange a place on the floor, someplace where you have full access to their body, and they to yours.

• Have your lover put on a blind fold (removes distractions), and lay comfortably relaxed propped up by pillows. The visual aspect should be in what is being imagined through the other senses. Your lover has to fully receive the pleasure you are giving them, and their only response is in showing you what they like by moaning or moving their body (this way you get to know their pleasure zones).

• In using touch and feeling sensations, think of as many different forms of touch that you can that are all done with your body. Fingers, hands, nails, running your body along theirs, pressing with different intensities, using the tip of your tongue, whole tongue, tickling, licking and sucking, gentle biting, stroking with your hair, blowing on their skin, etc.

• Using sound intentionally as a form of expression, make a variety of sounds that match the touch. Soft lingering moans,, deep breathing, grunting, deep belly sounds, whispering sexy gestures, giggling, deep sighing, and whatever else feels right in the moment. Or match the touch to the rhythm of whatever music is playing.

• As you explore with your face and mouth, you take in all the smells and tastes. Become familiar with them. Associate them to your feelings of sexual arousal and how incredible it feels to give pleasure to your lover. Explore and taste all areas of their body while making sounds that express your pleasure.

• Then, after fully explored and consumed, switch roles, and start again.

Practice this, or experiences similar to this and it will allow your body to come alive, your emotions to soar, and your mind to feel the deep pervading sense of inner peace as the sweet afterglow of desire satisfied fully with deep feeling of love expressed with the body. The greatest healing power there is, is the energy directed through human touch while filled with deep feelings of love. While we tend to describe “human needs” in terms of physical survival, loving touch, energy infused with emotions of love and directed with intention, is the greatest healing power there is, and the primary “spiritual need” of our soul.

Female Attraction Secrets - What You Need to Create Female Attraction With a Woman by Desiree Coleman

It does not take a rocket scientist or a psychology degree to realize that men and women are attracted by different things. For a man, it's nearly all about physical appearance of a woman. For a woman, it has a LOT more to do with the personality of a guy to make her feel attraction. Female attraction is kind of a fuzzy area for a lot of men, and being able to trigger female attraction is a lot more fuzzy as well. However, there are some female attraction secrets that you can use to make a woman feel massively attracted to you.

And when you DO know how to make a woman feel this kind of attraction, then you can easily approach and attract women wherever you might go. Do not think that you have to possess certain physical looks or traits to be good at attracting women. Sometimes, the guys that lack the looks but have the personality will do better than the men that are blessed with attractive features.

Here are some female attraction secrets to make women feel massive and intense attraction for a man that you must make use of:

1. A woman has to see that a man is definitely an alpha male. This might be the most important secret to female pleasure. The alpha male is naturally what a woman wants, this goes down to a deeper, more instinctual level with a woman. In nature, it is the alpha male that becomes the prize for a woman, and you can become that alpha male that seems to drive her crazy even though she is unsure of why this is.

2. To make her want you, you have to deny her access. Think of it like this: when you know that there is something that is off limits to you, it will almost always make you feel as though you have to have it. Being able to make a woman feel like you are the kind of man that she is not guaranteed to get will make her see you as the man that she has to have.

3. A man has to be able to make a woman feel safe and secure. To make women feel like they are safe and secure with you, what you need to do is to make her think that she is protected. You don't have to be a beefcake to make her feel this way, but you do have to possess a certain air of confidence.

Myths about Female Sexuality

Myths about Female Pleasure
This section looks at a few of the myths that surround female sexuality. It includes questions you may want to reflect upon, whether you're male or female.

Myth: Women's sexual feeling are not as strong as men's.

Fact: Women's sexual feelings can be every bit as strong as men's. Their desire or drive for sex can be just as powerful and their sexual pleasure can be, as well.

A woman's clitoris contains as many nerves as the head of a man's penis, but in a much smaller area, so the sensations she feels there can be very intense. Some women also enjoy multiple orgasms, whereas this is less common among men.

Every woman is different, and it's also normal to have times when sexual feelings are very strong and other times when they're less so.

How has this myth about women's sexual feelings affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?


Myth: Women like it hard and fast.
Fact: In real life, women seldom complain about their partners not being hard and fast enough. They do, however, often comment that they'd like to feel more "connected" with their partners and they'd like more tenderness and slow, gentle touching all over their bodies.

This softer, slower style can also be extremely pleasurable for the man and take away the pressure to "perform."

As in all areas of sexuality, there are important differences among individuals and what a particular woman enjoys will normally vary from occasion to occasion. This is an important area where couples need to communicate.

How has this myth about what women want affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: Most women don't masturbate.

Fact: According to most surveys, about two-thirds of women masturbate at some time in their lives. They may do so to relax, to get to sleep, and for various other reasons. They may engage in self-pleasuring whether or not they have a partner.

Most women who masturbate have orgasms through masturbation, and some research indicates that these orgasms tend to be more physically intense than those they have with a partner. This may be because the absence of a partner enables them to focus on their own pleasure.

Many women have their first orgasms through masturbation and then go on to have them with a partner as well. They may also incorporate self-pleasuring into sex with a partner.

How has this myth about self-pleasuring affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: A woman needs to have an orgasm to feel satisfied.

Fact: Many women, whether they normally have orgasms or not, can be very satisfied without an orgasm. On the other hand, a woman who has an orgasm may be satisfied physically but not emotionally.

The best way to determine whether your partner is satisfied is to ask her how she's feeling and whether there's anything she needs or wants.

How has this myth about women's need for orgasms affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: "Vaginal orgasms" are better than "clitoral orgasms."

Fact: This is a meaningless distinction, as the clitoris is always involved in triggering orgasms in women, even though a woman may experience orgasms that feel very different from each other.

We know that the clitoris extends much further into the body than originally thought, and this may be why women sometimes feel an orgasm in the vagina more strongly than in the glands or head of the clitoris.

In most cases the clitoris is not stimulated by vaginal penetration, so orgasm is much less likely to occur through intercourse than through stimulation with the hands or mouth.

Again, different women have different needs and preferences for stimulation. Discussion with your partner or showing your partner what you like can help him or her learn how to please you more.

How has this myth about orgasms affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: When a woman says "no" she really means "maybe." You just need to pressure her more.

Fact: This is clearly not true. The law regarding sexual assault makes it very clear that to proceed in sexual activity without your partner's consent is a crime, whether your partner is male or female.

A full discussion of sexual assault is beyond the scope of this program; suffice it to say that it's important for both partners to communicate what they want and don't want. The "Communication" section of this program will help you learn how to do that.

If you have questions about sexual assault, call your local sexual assault centre or visit this web site: www.sace.ab.ca.

How has this myth about saying "no" affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

The women's movement has encouraged a greater atmosphere of openness about women's sexuality than existed previously, but the myths we've mentioned here still have a powerful effect on women and men alike.

We would encourage you to be aware of the myths and try to determine what is true about sexuality and sex for you, examining and trusting your own values, feelings and experience. You may find it very beneficial if there is someone you can talk to about these things honestly and openly without fear of being judged.

Myth: Women like it hard and fast.

Fact: In real life, women seldom complain about their partners not being hard and fast enough. They do, however, often comment that they'd like to feel more "connected" with their partners and they'd like more tenderness and slow, gentle touching all over their bodies.

This softer, slower style can also be extremely pleasurable for the man and take away the pressure to "perform."

As in all areas of sexuality, there are important differences among individuals and what a particular woman enjoys will normally vary from occasion to occasion. This is an important area where couples need to communicate.

How has this myth about what women want affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?
Myth: Most women don't masturbate.

Fact: According to most surveys, about two-thirds of women masturbate at some time in their lives. They may do so to relax, to get to sleep, and for various other reasons. They may engage in self-pleasuring whether or not they have a partner.

Most women who masturbate have orgasms through masturbation, and some research indicates that these orgasms tend to be more physically intense than those they have with a partner. This may be because the absence of a partner enables them to focus on their own pleasure.

Many women have their first orgasms through masturbation and then go on to have them with a partner as well. They may also incorporate self-pleasuring into sex with a partner.

How has this myth about self-pleasuring affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: A woman needs to have an orgasm to feel satisfied.
Fact: Many women, whether they normally have orgasms or not, can be very satisfied without an orgasm. On the other hand, a woman who has an orgasm may be satisfied physically but not emotionally.

The best way to determine whether your partner is satisfied is to ask her how she's feeling and whether there's anything she needs or wants.

How has this myth about women's need for orgasms affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

Myth: "Vaginal orgasms" are better than "clitoral orgasms."
Fact: This is a meaningless distinction, as the clitoris is always involved in triggering orgasms in women, even though a woman may experience orgasms that feel very different from each other.

We know that the clitoris extends much further into the body than originally thought, and this may be why women sometimes feel an orgasm in the vagina more strongly than in the glands or head of the clitoris.

In most cases the clitoris is not stimulated by vaginal penetration, so orgasm is much less likely to occur through intercourse than through stimulation with the hands or mouth.

Again, different women have different needs and preferences for stimulation. Discussion with your partner or showing your partner what you like can help him or her learn how to please you more.

How has this myth about orgasms affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?
Myth: When a woman says "no" she really means "maybe." You just need to pressure her more.

Fact: This is clearly not true. The law regarding sexual assault makes it very clear that to proceed in sexual activity without your partner's consent is a crime, whether your partner is male or female.

A full discussion of sexual assault is beyond the scope of this program; suffice it to say that it's important for both partners to communicate what they want and don't want. The "Communication" section of this program will help you learn how to do that.

If you have questions about sexual assault, call your local sexual assault centre or visit this web site: www.sace.ab.ca.

How has this myth about saying "no" affected you? How do you feel about it after reading this section? What could you do to reduce this myth's impact on you?

The women's movement has encouraged a greater atmosphere of openness about women's sexuality than existed previously, but the myths we've mentioned here still have a powerful effect on women and men alike.

We would encourage you to be aware of the myths and try to determine what is true about sexuality and sex for you, examining and trusting your own values, feelings and experience. You may find it very beneficial if there is someone you can talk to about these things honestly and openly without fear of being judged.

The Art of Female Pleasure

If you're one of the many females pleasure around negative baggage, regarding sex, try to shrug off all those old 'wives tales.' Unfounded insecurities about sexuality, that some parents may have instilled deep within
your being, have actually instilled sexual dysfunction.

Were you lead to believe that masturbation was a big NO, NO? I'm not advocating that masturbation should be displayed in the public eye, but masturbation certainly is enjoyable and natural. Certain areas of our bodies are ultimate stimulants, like the erogenous zone, clitoris, nipples, or sensitive skin along the inside of the legs. For crying out loud, I bet generations of women have masturbated, and enjoyed it, too!

The editor of Babes in Toyland once explained the wonders of a woman's body and sexuality. I enhanced that opinion and included some of my own thoughts and experiences. I hope you'll, not only enjoy reading it, but that you'll accept your sexuality, and experiment to realize just what a wonderful release and experience masturbation can be.

How many of you masturbate on regularly, and are your masturbation sessions are fulfilling? Ok, so that was technically two questions, but they do go hand in hand. I seems when girlfriends discuss sex and masturbation, about half of them say they do not masturbate or do not enjoy it when they do. I am appalled that my hip, educated and sensuous friends do not know how to render self-pleasure!

And, if you are not masturbating - why not? Do you feel that it is "wrong" or bad? Did your parents or some other influences, in your life, tell you it was dirty? Or, do you have a partner now, and think that it is or should be no longer necessary? Or, are unfulfilled and let down when you masturbate? Do you think it's a lot of work for not much of a bang? These are just a few of the reasons 'Ive heard from my friends, and read on discussion boards. They might seem to be valid reasons, but, really they aren't.

Masturbation has been proven (clinically and medically) to be natural, healthy, and physically beneficial to men and women.

Why? Well, when we masturbate the orgasm that happens releases a hormonal rush which, ultimately, produces a calming, stress-relieving effect. Masturbation, also helps to keep our bodies tuned - and allows us to
connect with our sensuality and sexuality. How are we going to communicate what we like with our lovers, if we don't know how to pleasure ourselves?

This article will, hopefully, help to dispel some misconceptions about masturbation, and provide some helpful hints, tips and techniques for female pleasure. Even if you do masturbate, you might be doing it wrong (yes, I said wrong), or you might find more ways to enjoy your self-pleasuring. So, take notes ladies, this might be the best class you will ever take!

SEXUAL SINS

Many men and women feel that masturbation is wrong because of a strict religious background and upbringing - mainly Catholicism. I could go on and on about this subject, and include statements from Bible passages that clearly exclaim admiration of one's own body, and nurturing the sexual spirit is, in fact, acceptable.

Masturbation is the safest sex you can have. It is not religiously wrong, nor is it against God. However, if you were conditioned to believe that masturbation is wrong, it might take more than a few words to make you feel better about it.

The basic premise of our life on earth is to do things that make us happy and content, while being good, productive human beings - and masturbation does indeed help us to do that. It helps relieve pressures, teaches us about our bodies, and prepares us for a satisfying love life with a partner. There is nothing against God in those notions.

CAUGHT WITH YOUR HAND DOWN YOUR PANTIES

Perhaps you are one of the many guys or gals who were caught in the act of masturbation. Admittedly, this can be humiliating, it's not your problem to deal with. Masturbation is a natural part of adolescence, and how a parent deals with this can frame that child's sexual identity forever. While it is, most definitely, a shock to open the bathroom door to find your child actively engaged in masturbation, it's more important how that scenario is handled.

Some parents simply close the door, and perhaps talk to their child about masturbation, and invite an open dialogue with their child. Others get angry, upset, even disgusted. These parents are grossly misinformed on
how to handle sex or masturbation. If you had a parent react in this negative way, then it is possible that you have a negative perception of masturbation. If your parent told you it was "wrong" or "dirty," or that "good girls do not do that" - you may have a guilt complex when it comes to masturbation. You did nothing wrong, and any guilt you feel was your parent's fault. Don't continue to punish yourself for your parent's bad call when it came to your sexual education.

I HAVE A MAN...

One of the most popular reasons women (and men) do not masturbate is because they now have a partner and feel like solo play is no longer necessary. Your masturbation times might be shortened or less frequent if you are having a healthy sex life with your partner, but masturbation is still essential in a happy relationship.

Contrary to what you may believe, masturbating while you are in a relationship does NOT indicate that you are unhappy, or that you are sexually dissatisfied. Actually, when you have more sex, hormones often kick into overdrive, and cause increased desire for sexual release. The urge to masturbate more may be the biggest sign that you are sexually fulfilled - not unfulfilled.

And, if you are comfortable with your body, and enjoy pleasing yourself, you will be more apt and able to explain to your lover how and where to touch you. Women that masturbate on a regular basis, know exactly how they want to be touched, at what pace, what pressure, and in which specific spots. This can change as our bodies change and we get older, so it's important to know what we like NOW, as opposed to what we liked when we were 18.

It's not uncommon for men to clueless about how to pleasure women. But, if the woman knows how to pleasure herself, she will be comfortable explaining and helping her man improve his technique. Being comfortable with sex and self pleasure can be the best thing you can do to enhance your sex life. So, ladies, even if you have a man, and a healthy sex life, do not give up on self pleasure, you need it, and so does your man!

ALL FOR NAUGHT...

Finally, perhaps you are one of the women who has tried and tried to achieve climax through masturbation, but were not able to do it. You think to yourself, "all this work and no reward, forget that!" Hey, I understand, why do something if you get no satisfaction from it. This final section will address this issue and suggest some tried and true tips, and techniques that should have you shuddering with pleasure during your next masturbation session.

It's important to remember that every woman masturbates differently. It's true. We might all use our fingers, or a toy of some sort, but overall individual approaches to masturbation is very different from the next
woman's. Therefore, these tips and techniques are designed to help you discover your own road to pleasure.

While all women do have different styles when it comes to masturbation, there is a common rule of thumb; the clitoris is the key to orgasm. Perhaps there are a select few women who can orgasm without clitoral stimulation, the statistics suggest that upwards of 85% of all women need this stimulation to orgasm. So, if you're masturbating and not touching your clitoris, then you might have just found your answer!

TIPS AND TECHNIQUES

The first thing to remember, when it comes to masturbation, is to allow yourself time and privacy. While some women can masturbate to orgasm in a few minutes, I recommend that masturbation become a sort of ritual - a self-pleasuring ritual.

Rule #1:

Be comfortable: Get naked before you begin your masturbating session. Having your body completely accessible for play is the best way to go. And, the act of removing all your clothing can be arousing in and of itself.

Rule #2:

Privacy: Find a time and place when you can have as much 'you' time as you like without interruption from children or other obligations. Make sure you are secure and private, and can be naked without fear of someone walking into your space. Bathrooms and bathtubs can be good places for masturbation, especially if you have young children. But, the bathroom doesn't necessarily offer comfort, such as a bed.

Rule #3:

Time: Along the same lines as rule #2, having the time to play is instrumental to let go of stress, and achieve that zen state that you so desire. Trying to fit masturbation in between dinner and bedtime is not the best thing to do; get private, alone time.

Rule #4:

Ambiance: Yes, it is just as important to surround yourself with soothing sounds, and sights, as it is to be naked and comfortable. Remember, you are seducing yourself, so lighting candles, playing music, and dimming the lights can do wonders for your arousal state. Or, if you enjoy adult entertainment, a sexual DVD might just get you ready, and give you some personal fantasy time.

Rule #5:

Patience: This is your time! Do not feel pressured to achieve orgasm in 2 minutes; play, touch, tease and tempt your body to orgasm. Do not put any high expectations on yourself. Relax!

Now, once you've achieved Rules 1-5, you can proceed to the enjoyment of masturbating. As I mentioned, the clitoris is a woman's "hot button," and this is true, but the last thing you should do is go directly there.
Confused? Well, you see, if you go right for the clitoris you may have an orgasm, but all the prep-work is wasted and overlooked.

Instead, start by pleasuring your erogenous zones. Play with your breasts, pinch your nipples, run your fingers up and down your belly and thighs. Take time to touch yourself as you would imagine the best lover in the world would touch you. Close your eyes and feel your body come alive with each touch. Take time getting to your vaginal area. Enjoy the arousal time - you made the time - use it.

When you are ready to touch your vagina, try doing something different. Pull gently on your vaginal lips, run your fingers up and down your slit. Feel the moistness as you become more and more aroused. Open your labia (lips) with one hand, and feel around with your other. You might want to use a finger and gently insert it into your vagina. Do what feels good to you! When you feel aroused and don't want to return, begin touching your clitoris.

SIDE BAR: This is an educational article, and I want to take a moment and describe exactly where the clitoris is located, just in case some of you who may be reading this are unfamiliar with its location. The clitoris is a small "button" that is located at the top of your vulva (top of vagina, toward the belly) that hides underneath your labia. The clitoris engorges with blood when you become aroused, and becomes a little more noticeable at this point. All women have different clitorises. Some are large, some are small, some are prominent, some are more hidden. Whatever type of clitoris you have, it's the key to your arousal and satisfaction.

So, when you are ready, go ahead and touch your clitoris. Do not immediately begin rubbing it as hard as you can, delay the moment. The build-up can be almost as good as the orgasm, ladies! Rub it circular, or in up and down motions - whatever you like, and then stop. Pull your lips again, touch your breasts, finger yourself. Then, go back to your clitoris with more aggression. The idea is to seduce yourself into a frenzy.

When you feel like you are ready to finish and climax, try some of these tried and true techniques to finish:

Open your vaginal lips wide with one hand (this allows the clitoris to be more exposed, causing the skin around it to become tighter). As you hold yourself open with one hand, use the other hand to rub your clitoris
directly. You may like your finger to rub and circle, or you might like using the whole palm. Do what feels good and switch it up,

Or, you can use the fingers of one hand, and insert one or two fingers of the other hand into your vagina - and all the while, rubbing and caressing your clitoris. Having something to insert (toy or fingers) can really add to the stimulation.

Think outside the box, and hold yourself open while lightly tapping on your vagina and clitoris. Once engorged, the clitoris becomes extremely sensitive, so light tapping can create a tremendous build-up and release. Try it, you just might like it, and then, you can share that secret with your lover!

The main commonality here is to do what you like, what feels good, and what will get you to climax the best. Not everything works for every woman, so experiment and try several techniques.

SEEING IS BELIEVING

If you're a woman who is a bit naive about masturbation and her body (or even if you are not), this next suggestion might really enlighten you on the joys and mysteries of your body. This might seem strange at first, but it is something many, many women have done - including myself.

I suggest that after completing the masturbation rules, get a mirror (preferably full length), and position it where you can get a good view of your vaginal area. Take a moment to look at the beauty and uniqueness which is your private area. Open your vaginal lips, pull them and see how they stretch. Put a finger inside and see the wetness you produce. See if you can see your clitoris. It is all a mystery of human sexuality, and it is your mystery to unfold.

Then, while you masturbate, watch yourself! Watch how your vagina changes, swells, gets red and engorged with blood. Watch as your clitoris gets bigger and ready for climax. Watching the physiological change in your body as you pleasure yourself can be extremely enlightening and arousing. For many women, this can be one of the best ways to reach climax.

If you have a better understanding of what your body does when it is stimulated you can appreciate the delicate balance of touch and pressure. You can even relay this to your lover, or simply enjoy the miracle of arousal.

Most desired celebrity kisses

The rating of stars inhabitants of different countries would like to kiss most of all is published. The first places of the list were unconditionally occupied with one of the most known couple of the world.

A kiss with Hollywood star Angelina Jolie is most people’s dream. Her beloved, Brad Pitt, follows her in the list. This star couple could bypass many famous actors and singers.

The third place belongs to a holder of “Most sexual” title - Jessika Alba. Changes in appearance and figure, connected with motherhood did not prevent Jessika from entering the rating.


The most desired star kisses:

1. Angelina Jolie
2. Brad Pitt
3. Jessika Alba
4. Orlando Blum
5. Justin Timberlake
6. David Bekham
7. Jude Law
8. Hugh Jackman
9. Beyonce Knowles
10. Nicole Kidman

Skin types and face care

If you want to have beautiful and healthy skin, it is necessary to determine your skin type and make a detailed acquaintance with needs of different skin types, to apply desired cosmetic correctly.

Following skin types are the most common: normal, dry, oily, combined, sensitive, dehydrated.

What is T-zone

T-zone - is a T-shaped part of face: forehead, nose and chin. Skin of T-zone is sometimes significantly different from skin of cheeks and skin around eyes. In general, it is somewhat fatter. Sebaceous glands on forehead, nose and chin are very dense. They produce more fat for better protection from exposure to sun, wind and weather. If the ratio “fat-dry” is balanced and not obvious, skin belongs to the normal type, and care is easy. Difficulties arise only when the difference between fat and dry areas is so large that you do not know what drugs to use for care. Then we talk about combined skin.

* Normal skin has following features: same color and uniform pigmentation;
* Skin is clean, soft to the touch and flexible;
* Skin evenly secretes fat and moisture;
* Skin has no acne and pimples;
* No enlarged pores;
* Little or no wrinkles.

* How to determine type of skin: when determining type of skin, you need good lighting;
* Face must be clean;
* If face has makeup, pay attention to fat content of skin before makeup removal;
* Proceed to analysis of skin type about an hour after makeup removal;
* Ask questions and pay attention to answers: client knows her skin as no one else;
* Explore T-zone, and then skin of cheeks and around eyes;
* Do not hurry up and explore skin on following criteria: skin structure, size of pores, cleanliness of skin and fine wrinkles;
* Examining T-zone and skin of cheeks and around eyes, you will quickly determine that most people have either dry or oily, or combined skin.

Some client’s may have sensitive skin.

Sensitive skin does not belong to a certain type of skin. It is rather a skin condition that needs special care. The problem of these people is not in the fact they have dry or oily skin. The problem is to improve skin texture in general. No matter what type of skin your client has. Any skin changes during aging, in the process of changing seasons and lifestyle itself.

Natural sebum - the best way to preserve moisture, so its lack immediately affects humidity. Horn cells become dry, scaly, their mutual relationship is weakening, and moisture can easily evaporate. Harmful irritants can also penetrate inside, so dry skin often becomes painfully sensitive and ages faster.

Basic care for dry skin

* Dry skin needs: cleansers on oily basis, without removing its natural fat: cleansing cream or milk;
* Nourishing and moisturizing creams;
* Day cream should contain sun filter to avoid premature aging.

* Avoid: sauna;
* Sweating sports and swimming in chlorinated water;
* Scrubs and peeeling tools;
* Spirit-tonics;
* Fat-free gel preparations should be used only in combination with suitable skin creams.

Sensitive skin requires special care.

Pay attention to the fact that care is simple. This applies to both recipes and quantity of cosmetics. Expose skin to the sun quite rarely. During especially stressful periods give up anything that may cause skin’s excitement from the inside: coffee, tea, cola drinks. Be careful with alcohol and sharp spices. They stimulate blood circulation and increase nervousness, what can easily lead to spots and itching in sensitive skin.

Oily skin and features of its care

* Signs of oily skin: oily shine;
* Wide pores;
* Blackhead;
* Skin is thick;
* Gray face;
* Makeup lasts badly.

Keeping oily skin in good condition is not so simple. But oily skin has its advantages. It is quite insensitive, so it remains young long. Grease creates a good protective film, which does not allow moisture to evaporate and blocks penetration of harmful substances from the outside. By thirty years, oily skin turns into combined.

What is important for oily skin

Thorough cleaning in the mornings and evenings - the basis of care for oily skin, prone to inflammation.

* Fat skin needs: non-greasy moisturizer;
* Medicines that do not clog pores;
* Cleansers, which favorably affect skin and do not provoke adipose glands;
* Non-greasy cleansers, which thoroughly cleanse skin and remove excess fat.

How to remove oily shine

Beautiful skin with fine pores is most easily achieved by constant slight deoiling and supporting the stratum corneum thin. Proper cleansing masks can help here, they relieve skin from excessive fat and horny particles for several minutes. Tonics that contain mineral powder of fine grind provide a good effect. During the day, you can frost skin with tonic few times. Powder is an effective remedy against fatty luster. Loose powder, not containing pearl luster provides the best efect.

Combined skin care

* Signs of combined skin: oily T-zone, it may even have pimples and acne;
* Cheeks are dry.

In mature years, combined skin almost always changes in the direction of normal.

Features of combined skin care

Use moisturizers. If forehead, nose and chin become fatter than usual from time to time, do not apply cream on these areas in the evening. And vice versa: if usual cream does not eliminate the feeling of tightness in cheeks, add some fat cream. For different parts of skin, use masks of various actions. Do not use masks at the same time, alternate them.